Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Pictures are at the end.
Part 1: Tuesday, we were busy nonstop. At 8 AM, we had a Webex with our bosses at the Suva Self Reliance Center. As we were talking to our son Ray on Skype, the PEF financial expert, Dallas from New Zealand, called and talked to Rex about a question on PEF. We got dressed just in time for district meeting with our missionaries and Zone Leaders. After the training, we ate with them at the Chinese Restaurant and played with them and the residents at the old folks home, then helped Elders with transport.  As we were driving to Naduna to get the Seaqaqa Elders, the Zone Leaders called. They had left their lights on, and needed Rex to come jump their truck. Rex came to their rescue, as he always does, and then we were on our way to give our Education class to a returned missionary who wants to get a PEF Loan to go to university here in Labasa to become an elementary school teacher. We were told she lives just 10 minutes from the church, but she actually lives halfway to Savusavu. It was a beautiful drive, and we enjoyed our visit with the Elders. (Next door to her house, we bought 4 little pineapples tied in a bunch for $5. We shared with the Elders. They are the best, sweetest, pineapples I have ever tasted.) We taught her the first Foundation class and first two “Education for Better Work” classes as one. It went really well, and she seemed receptive. While we were teaching her, the Elders visited a lady they used to see every Wednesday night before their truck got totaled. They came back in time to hear the end of the lesson. 
We went back to the chapel to meet with Aloisi to help him with some PEF and education needs as well. He is the Elders Quorum President who kept the branch afloat while President Petero was in Australia for 2 months.  A couple weeks ago, we had asked about him and been told he was under a mountain of debt he could never get out of and that he had failed a class so he couldn’t get another PEF Loan. He was stuck and had given up on education. A few days later, we got a strong feeling that we needed to help Aloisi. We jumped some hoops, asked questions of our PEF leaders in New Zealand, and found that he only has to pay $60 Fijian ($30 US) to be current on his loan, and a sponsor has already offered to pay that. Now as soon as he decides for sure on a major, he can apply for another PEF loan to get back to the university.  He is one of the sharpest young people we have met here, and we hope he will succeed and be happy. 
We visited with him and he told his story. While going to classes, he had thought it was not necessary to hand in the stupid, simple assignments. He would just do well on the big tests and pass. Big mistake. (One huge rule for everyone going to school is: Hand in EVERY assignment. Never miss a single one. Rex calls getting a 0 a double F. I teach the students here by saying if they have four assignments, and get 100% on three of them but don’t hand in the fourth one, it averages out to be 75%. That’s a C. That hurts!)
Part 2: We were happy to be at the end of a very long day, and we were on the way home when the Nakawakawa Elders called and said their pipes were leaking and water was everywhere. Rex said we would leave the next morning. I just shook my head. Couldn’t they get someone in the branch to help them? I was dead tired, and I just wasn’t ready for that huge trip. I woke up Wednesday still feeling negative and doubting my ability to go. It takes me a while, but I finally asked for a blessing. I have such a testimony of Priesthood Blessings. They have literally saved my life, taken away my pain, settled me down, and allowed me to do many things that I just didn’t have the strength to do. 
We had the most glorious date! The scenery was beautiful, we were happy, and the day was perfect. Much of the time, we were the only people in sight. It seemed like just us and fabulous Fiji. We were having so much fun looking at the scenery and talking that we missed the turn to the church so Rex took me down to see Pita’s house and the stream by it. Pita’s family was not home. Construction workers said they were at the chapel. 
We drove back to find many members at the chapel. The women were chanting while the men were learning a native dance they will perform when the whole Nakawakawa Branch goes to Taveuni for the District Conference, Nov. 20-21. Taking that many is not a cheap trip. It is always amazing how willing they are to sacrifice to participate in the church and support its activities. It was fun watching and listening to them practice.
     Since the Elders live in a flat attached to the chapel in the middle of a rain forest, they have few amenities in their simple apartment. They had asked for a few shelves and other things, but the mission office hasn’t had time to fill their order yet. Before we left home, I had called our landlord and asked if we could buy the small cabinet that has been sitting on our back porch for the missionaries to use. She said they could have it for free. That made my day! We took it down with us in the back of the truck. After about an hour of terribly bumpy gravel roads, we hit one of the huge holes, and the truck jumped into the air and hit hard coming down. Only then did I think of the cabinet. I wondered if it would be reduced to kindling after two hours of this torture. Fortunately, it was still together when we arrived. I cleaned the cabinet and sorted all their missionary pamphlets to put on the top shelf. They fit perfectly! That still left 2 shelves and 2 small drawers for them to fill. It was old and a bit weathered, but it had been beautiful when it was new, and it looked very much at home there. It made me happy.  
     Rex has a way of always making a difficult task seem easy. He had bought the necessary plumbing parts without even seeing it first. He worked hard and efficiently and fixed the water line. He even added a shut off valve to avoid future problems.
     Rex played a little volleyball with the ball we had given them earlier, and we visited a few minutes with the members while the missionaries changed into proselyting clothes . Pita said 6 more months is not enough time for us to be here with them. He loves the Woodwards. He is so appreciative of us, and he treats us like royalty. Ironically, he is the one who will someday take his place as the chief of his village. The white chapel we helped them paint can be seen from some of the villages and looks like a  temple on the hill.
      We dropped the Elders off down at the village to save them the long walk they take each day. They call it their daily exercise. Then we were on our way home. Rex decided to take the long way home with less distance on treacherous roads and less bouncing. Plus, he wanted to see how the road construction was doing going around the west end of the island. We got to see a lot more ocean and wave at many more people. I love how they smile broadly as they excitedly wave back. We had one hour of more subdued bouncing, and then smooth roads the rest of the way home. The construction is proceeding well. The Chinese are here putting in beautiful concrete bridges to replace the rickety old ones. The trip there took 3 hours 20 minutes. The way home took 3 hours 45 minutes. We got to experience both. The day I had dreaded turned out to be one of my mission highlights. What a beautiful world!
Take care and have a party!
Love you!
One view of the ocean from the road

This new home looked happy sitting on the hill in the middle of the greenery. Even up that high, it is still built on stilts.

Part of the pond by Pita's home, looking down a long ways where the his daughter fell off this ledge and landed in the deeper part safe from the big rocks on the side.

Where water runs from one pond to the next. Notice all the rocks in the bottom.

Rex standing in front of rocks gathered from other parts of the river to be used for construction.

Men practicing the native dance
They really got into it.

Women learning their chant

Rex serving volleyball

He gets close to the members by playing with them.


On the way home, we saw a new foal nursing. When we stopped to take a picture, the children lined up to be in it. You can still see a little of the colt. It is not very old.


Sunday, October 25, 2015


 More Fiji Firsts!

This is what you call a tire truck. We have no idea why they unloaded all of these tires into the Bible Institute, but they did. Later we saw them loading them back onto the truck. There is a man on top saying "Hi!" Can you find him?

This is a pickup converted into a transport truck with benches and back rests.
Rex asked the owner if he could take a picture, "Ride in Style"

Farmers here decorate their last load of sugar cane, usually with scarecrows, banners, or greenery sticking up. This one is decorated with banana trees.

This sign shows you have the right of way to cross this  one lane bridge.
On the way back is a sign that you have to give way.

One way traffic across the bridge. We always hope no one is coming the other way because they don't always follow the signs. 

     Yesterday we got to see all six people, who had been baptized the day before, get confirmed in Labasa. It was a beautiful, spiritual experience. Rex got called up to be in the circle and got to confirm Darshika Singh. After Latchmi got confirmed, she shook everyone’s hands. She held Rex’s hand extra long and kissed it a lot. When she came back to her seat, since she is partially blind, I helped her sit down, squeezed her hands and gave her a thumbs up. She was still celebrating.
     Afterwards, the talks were on the Book of Mormon. I loved them, especially the quote by the Prophet Joseph Smith: “I told the brethren that the Book of Mormon was the most correct of any book on earth, and the keystone of our religion, and a man would get nearer to God by abiding by its precepts, than by any other book.” This quote makes me happy.
     After sacrament meeting, while Rex was getting a teaching manual for Naduna’s newly called Young Men’s President, a lady took me aside and said she needed a blessing for a rash that looked to me to be Shingles. I got Rex and the Elders, and they gave her a sweet blessing. We rushed the Elders back to their apartment to get the baptismal forms they had forgotten, and we went to Seaqaqa and attended all their meetings, plus their Ward Council Meeting. The heads of all the auxiliaries were challenged to fast and pray about how they could bring more members into the branch to have enough to become a ward. They need 150 members including at least 19 active, full tithe paying Priesthood holders.
     We also talked to two people about continuing their education. We will be teaching our first 2 hour class including “Education for Better Work,” “My Path,” and “My Foundation” in Seaqaqa on Tuesday night and in Labasa on Thursday night. Only a few will be a few attending. I wish we could teach more, but they can’t afford to quit their jobs to go to school, even though their jobs are paying very little. The economy here is just plain wrong and makes absolutely no sense to me. In Fijian money, $5 here is a fortune, yet a bag of chips costs $4, and a frozen chicken costs $20. Many make $1/hour, (50 cents US). $3.50/hr ($1.75 US) is considered high wages. One of my favorite people, our ward clerk, makes $6000 a year ($3000 US). He can’t even fathom leaving that great job to go back to school. Our monthly costs here in Fiji, for our mission alone, are 2/3 of that. It drives me crazy. I wish we could do more to help. Yet, they are the most humble, happiest people in the world. We love them.
Count your many blessings and enjoy your day!

Love you!




Saturday, October 24, 2015



Yesterday October 24, 2015 was a highlight day for the Labasa Branch. We had six baptisms. One was performed by Elder Kumar, and the rest by Elder Mong Yen. It was an honor to make the program and for both of us to speak at the baptism. My Kelly Kumar I have been helping a little with keyboarding played a piano solo of "I Am a Child of God: from the "Hymns Made Easy" songbook. I am so proud of her. The Spirit was there in abundance along with lots of smiles and hugs. The young missionaries and families made superb refreshments to cap it off.
Peni Qalo 

Javleen Jerusha Wati 

Niklesh Raj      

Samantha Subhashna Prasad

Latchmi
The picture doesn't show how cute this old woman is.
When she passed her baptismal interview, she jumped up and down waving her arms in the air, "I passed! I passed!"

Darshika Singh 


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It is said how great the joy it is to bring one soul into the kingdom, but this was incredible to bring 6 souls in one day, all from different families. Everyone was so excited!



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Always fun to take pictures of kids taking pictures

Love this family! Samantha got baptized. Sylvia is the one whose birthday party we attended earlier and the one holding the baby is the one we helped move out of an abusive situation. The mother is the best cook ever! I have yet to make this little baby smile!

They had most of the refreshments served before we got the camera out. My favorites were something like pot pies that Samatha Prasad's mother made. The sisters got up at 5 am and made tuna sandwiches and egg sandwiches cut in fourths and stacked perfectly to bring.


Thursday, October 22, 2015

     Rex said I have to include two  experiences concerning bugs. Usually when I see a bug or spider, I just yell for Rex to take care of it because I’m afraid of them have an adversity to squishing anything, but these two times, he wasn’t there.
     The first was a spider on the mirror right above the little sink in the shower room. I didn't want to do it, but it seemed like an easy fix. I got a paper and swished it into the sink to go down the drain. Then I remembered that it would just come out the bottom of the open pipe onto the floor. I screamed and ran and grabbed tissue. My face grimaced as I snatched up the spider, which was pretending to be dead; walked quickly, hoping it wouldn't bite me; and threw it into the toilet and flushed it. I shuddered a little as I watched it go down.
The second incident happened as I was carrying the bucket to the back of the flat to get hot water to do the dishes. I looked down and saw a live baby cockroach, only about 1 ½ inches long, in the bottom of the bucket. I held it away from me and detoured to the bathroom to dump it into the toilet. I banged the bucket on the toilet seat and backed up. When I looked, the cockroach was not in the water, but was on the lid. I screamed. It raced down the toilet and was coming across the floor towards me. I kept screaming. I put the bucket sideways hoping it would run in, but it dodged. I tried again, and it went in. I slammed the bucket on the lid again, but when I looked, it was already 2/3 of the way up the side and heading out. I screamed, “No!” and flushed the toilet. The stream caught it full force and took it down. I stood there with my hands over my face, just shaking. 
     Last night, as I got up to get a drink, I saw a huge cockroach scurrying across the floor in the next room. I just let it go and went back to bed.
  

Wednesday, October 21, 2015

As it gets a little colder there, it is getting a little hotter here. Oct. 27 is our year mark. Just 6 more months and a week before we come home, but who's counting. We were hoping the mission would pay for us to go to Suva for the big celebration before the temple is rededicated; but they said if we want to come, we pay ourselves. We just bought our plane tickets and hotel stay for Feb 20. We feel it is well worth it. It will be one of the highlights of our mission!
We are loving our mission and loving this beautiful country and its people. There are many things we will miss when we come home, and I'm sure that at times I will be homesick for them and the privacy and solitude we have here. It has been good for my soul in many ways.
Take care and have a party!
Love you!

Sunday, October 18, 2015

     Rex Wrote: President Bull asked me to be in charge of showing all the sessions of Conference at the same times as they had been shown in the United States, just two weeks later. Saturday morning President Bull asked me to get everything set up. He would not be there until the 6 PM priesthood session. His son would bring the key to unlock the sound system and get the DVD’s out of the clerk’s office. We were smart enough to get the big soft seats from on the stand, rather than sit on the hard plastic chairs all day.
     At 10 AM, Betty and I started conference. We were the only ones there. Brother Mahen had come to clean and did sit in on two talks then had to leave early.  We went out to eat between sessions. Betty and I were the only ones there for the 2 PM session. It was just Betty and I in a big chapel, holding hands during conference. It gave us a one-on-one experience with the leaders of the church. Their words hit us hard and touched our souls. It was a good conference. The general theme seemed to be to love and trust the Lord, cling to the atonement, and families can be together forever.
     Between 4 & 6 PM, we helped the young missionaries with transport, and I took Betty back to the flat. I took ice cream and cookies for treats to share with all who came to the priesthood session. I was the only one there. It was a weird feeling hearing how the priesthood was gathered all around the world and sitting there by all by myself. After being spiritually fed, I came home and had a banana split. To the faithful go the spoils!
     On Sunday, we went early and set it all up again. This time we had a chapel full. We showed the English version in one end and the Fijian version in the other. I loved how President Monson bore his fervent testimony with all the energy he had. That was tender to witness. We are truly blessed with amazing leaders. I am grateful for continuing revelation that leads and guides us. We got to meet the three new apostles and hear them talk and bear their testimony.
     During the shorter hour break, the Relief Society served huge 4 x 8” chunks of French-style bread. It was cut in the middle, buttered, and served with cocoa. I think they got day old bread to reduce cost. It was overcooked and hard. Still, it seemed appreciated. We also talked with three students about education classes and status on PEF. We were trying to touch all our bases.
     For the Fijians, we used a big flat TV screen hooked to Betty’s computer. For some reason, the sound was not very loud. We even ran home to get our speakers, but they didn’t work well either. Finally, after Betty experimented a little, she got it to a level she and the members thought was acceptable. We got theirs started first, then started the English one in the chapel. I wasn't quite satisfied, and I had an idea to see if I could make the sound come from the TV and the computer speakers simultaneously. I hit a few buttons, and all I succeeded in doing was making it so the screen went white. There was sound, but no picture. I realized I was in over my head. This was not my computer. I grabbed Betty in the middle of the prayer and had her come rescue me. She pushed one button and restored it back to normal. The Fijians were still laughing when we walked past the open windows back to the chapel. They thought that was hilarious.
    We enjoyed the rest of conference. I loved Elder Bednar’s tribute to the six leaders he had loved and known who have died since he was made an apostle. Conference made my day complete.
    Right after conference, I met with Brother Mahen, and we shipped out 40 records of members who have moved.
Then we got a call from the Sisters asking for a ride to Siberia to the Salabogi’s. While they were giving the lesson, I asked Brother Salabogi if Meri had applied for the passports yet to take the little boy to America. He proudly said,
Yes!” It made my day completer.
     Just then, the Seaqaqa Elders called and asked for transport to Naduna. They are without a truck since theirs is the one that was borrowed and wrecked. We took them and came back to visit and wait for the Sisters. Brother Salabogi asked that I give a priesthood blessing to his young granddaughter who was very sick. It’s always a little frightening, yet amazing. I always try to say what I think Christ would say because it’s His priesthood, power, and authority. That made my day completest.
We hope you are all happy and doing well!
Take care of yourselves & have a party!
Love you!

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Last night we had a glorious time with the young missionaries having a party to celebrate Elder Aoina’s birthday yesterday and Rex’s birthday two weeks ago. We had pizza and they had all sorts of desserts and ice cream. After dinner, we played Scum. There was a lot of joking and laughing. Good Fun!
     A week ago, we had a district dinner. The chicken and rice dish was made by one of our less active members. The Elders have been teaching her daughter. We had so much food that we invited the Bennets to come eat with us. They are a Senior Couple based in New Zealand, but covering the whole Pacific Rim teaching Family History and helping members find their ancestors for temple work. She is so exuberant! It made me tired just watching her, but I had to smile at her excitement and enthusiasm. As with all the Senior Missionaries, they are outstanding.
     We are working hard to correlate Powerpoint presentations to present three Self Reliance Courses at once—My Path, My Foundation, and Education for Better Work. We will also be teaching concepts from My Job Search, which will be the course we teach at the end. The church has some amazing tools in place to help these people. Now we just need to find those who want the help enough to work really hard for it. The Education class is very demanding, and the road to get a PEF Loan is an intricate and hard roller coaster ride with lots of twists and turns and hidden surprises. We’ve already given the man the ticket, and we are on that ride once again. We’ll see how many make it safely and successfully to the end. President Bull says he will give us a list of members to add to the few we have already gathered. Hopefully, we can begin the course next week.
     We are proud of the young missionaries. They have been working so hard. They are expecting to have 5 or 6 baptisms next week. We will report on that later.
Take care, Everyone!

We Love You!
The Birthday Boy is taking the picture. He should have been in it.
Their pizzas are not as good as at home. The cheese is inferior, and the crust is like cardboard. They use catsup to enhance the flavor. Still costs over $15 US money.

Sunday, October 11, 2015

We heard a sad story. While we were gone to Nakawakawa, a lady's home caught fire.Evidently, it was one of the biggest, fanciest houses in Labasa. Our members could see the fire from the church. She got a child out safely, but she ran back in for all her money and jewelry and didn't make it back out.
We passed by the cemetery the day of her funeral. The cemetery parking lot was full, as was the gas station and both sides of the street for over a block each way. There were well over a thousand people there to honor her. Evidently she was a woman of high station. 
I have thought about her often, even though I didn't know her. Her highest priority was the child. That was good, but I wish she had valued her own life more than her worldly possessions. What a waste of a beautiful daughter of God. I wish she had found the Gospel, and her priorities might have been different.
I'm grateful for the Church in our lives.
Love you!

Saturday, October 10, 2015

When President and Sister Layton were here last doing training, they both had really bad colds. In fact, we had to get into our medical supplies to find Sister Layton an antibiotic the nurse had prescribed. I must have caught their sickness. For the second time on this mission, I am staying home from church. I could go and sit there, but I wouldn’t be able to shake hands with all the men and give hugs to all the women, as I do every week; and I don’t want to get our precious members sick. While I am at home, I have had a little time to reminisce.
When I was a child, we lived on a farm three miles north of Preston. Primary was on weekdays then. Dad teased me and sang this little song, “Primary, primary, you can’t go to primary. Tee Hee Hee.” He was just kidding, but I was devastated. I wanted to go more than anything. I yearned to go more than anything. All my life, I have had that same yearning. Life is just not right when I don’t go to my church meetings. Life is happier when I do.
I treasure the gift of personal revelation to help me in my daily life. I love that I can talk to my loving Father in Heaven through prayer, and He hears me and blesses me. Rex even says that He spoils me.
Even though I have had tingling over most of my body for about 30 years, Heavenly Father always blesses me and strengthens me to do whatever I need to do.  It is through his tender mercies that I am now serving a mission in Fiji and trying to be an instrument in His hands to tell the world the Gospel is true and to help the members and young missionaries here.
We have heard many conversion stories lately. I sometimes feel I missed out on never having that single defining moment when I knew the Church was true. Yet, I am grateful that I have always known it is true. There was never a time in my life that I didn’t know it is true. I testify that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is the only true church on the earth – the only church on earth with all the keys and authority of God. I love that we have a prophet today who receives revelation from God to lead and guide us through these troublesome times. I am ever grateful for a loving Savior who suffered more than we can ever comprehend, and who died that we might live again; a savior who understands our every sadness and adversity and pain because He went through them all for us. I love the Holy Ghost, my perfect and constant companion, who leads, guides, and protects me, who tends and takes care of me and gives me comfort and peace. I am indeed spoiled with the best husband, and family, and friends. Thank you all for your love and support.
I love you forever!

Wednesday, October 7, 2015

     We had the privilege yesterday of driving the Nakawakawa elders back home. They had too many things to take home to go on the bus. During our 3 1/2 hour trip, it was fun to get to know them better and hear their stories, and of course they had us tell them many of ours. 
     We stopped at the crash site. I think they needed the extra closure. In better light, we could retrace their tracks. If they had gone off the first side before they over corrected, there was over a 30 foot drop into the stream. I don't think any of them would have walked away. 
First side, looking down. Cameras don't show depth perception well, but it's a long ways down. That was a tall fern palm tree.


On the side they actually went off, if the truck would have slid another 10-15 feet farther down the road, there was a sheer dropped off about 40 feet into the other side of the stream.
Second side even farther. Hard to imagine they missed this.
Shows where it was and where they pulled it out.


     The Elders told us the wreck was in slow motion as if they were outside watching themselves. When they stopped, one door was caved in right next to one elder, and there was a v shaped dent in the top of the cab that was caved in right between them, but didn't hit anyone. 
     The first thing they did when they came to a stop was to see if everyone was okay. Then Elder Boyack said a prayer of thanks, for indeed they knew they had been protected. 
They had to walk a bit to get cell service. Then they tried to call a few times before they thought to send the text. We told them it was a blessing that they had gotten through, since we had not when we called. I guess it was all in the Lord's timing.  It was very spiritual being there again and seeing their gratitude for a loving Heavenly Father for keeping them safe. 
     When we got to Nakawakawa, we had to chuckle at how happy they were to be back to their own apartment. There is no electricity, no inside shower or toilet, just camping in the Bush on top of a mountain. They have to walk at least 2 miles to get to any people except Pita and his family! Yet, they are happy to be serving there. They absolutely love the people there. At first the new elder wondered why everyone was so jealous that he got to serve in Nakawakawa. Now he knows. There are over 50 member with 100% activity. The whole branch works together to make things happen.
     The Seaqaqa elders saw their truck in the repair shop and took pictures. We told them not to post them on Facebook. They are anxious for a new truck so they can be more effective in the work in Seaqaqa and surrounding area. The President is working on it.
We loved the rocks and sand that reminded us of Southern Utah


Works end. You may now go 80 Km.
Right! Our main speed was 40Km. or about 25 MPH in the US. It was slow going.




Houses made of wicker. Quite a sight!


Notice the little trees. They are actually fence posts that are growing. The saying is, "Stick it in the ground and it will grow."
We are feeling and doing well!
Thanks to all who have replied to our emails. We would love to hear from the rest of you, even if it’s just a line or two. I love emails! They make my day happy!
Have an amazing day!
Love you!

Monday, October 5, 2015

Rex wrote the Rest of the Story: Nakawakawa
After the meeting, Pita asked if I would drive him home and bring back some food his wife and mother-in-law had made. He said it would only take ten minutes to warm up. Elder Harward came along to help, and Pita’s family all jumped in the truck. While the women cooked, Pita showed us the river behind his home. We stood on the edge of his back yard looking over a fifteen-foot cliff at a beautiful clear pond lined with big rocks. One day Pita’s little daughter had fallen off that cliff. They were afraid she had hit the big rocks right below, but somehow she had landed about five feet out into the pond where the water is three feet deep. They got her out, and she was fine. Now she stays right away from the edge.
     The river continues on with rapids, about double the size of Cub River, and flows into another pond they use for baptisms. We stood at the edge of that pond, and Pita’s daughter picked up little rocks and threw them into the water. I grabbed a big rock about the size of a shot put and hurled it in to watch the splash. It was impressive! The streambed is filled with rocks. A company wants to come and haul them all away for $4 a yard to use for road repair. I said, “Don’t let them destroy your river.”
     Elder Harward gave Pita some advice for his new calling as Branch President, “My own son was just made a bishop and asked me for advice on how to handle the load. I told him, ‘Read the handbook and find all the things that only you can do. Do them and delegate everything else to your counselors. Put God and family first, calling second, and occupation third.’”
     After the ladies finished cooking the food, and we got it into the truck, President Harward looked back at the little house in paradise. He said, “This is like a micro glimpse of Heaven -- a worthy priesthood holder; a loving, virtuous wife; a beautiful child; and a peaceful place to live.”
     We had an enjoyable meal and lots of fun and visiting. We are grateful and privileged to have been part of this glorious day in Nakawakawa. After pictures and farewells, I led the branch in three shouts for Nakawakawa. It was a grand tribute!
     Before the ride home, we divided to ride in the three trucks. The men in the mission and district leaders were in the lead truck to hold a presidency meeting; the women and I were in the middle truck; and the AP’s and the Nakawakawa Elders were in the last truck.  As we left at 3:30 PM, the saints lined the hill by the chapel and waved goodbye. We felt like VIPs in a parade. The plan was to drive the two hours on the graveled road to the junction and then redistribute passengers to get them back where they needed to go. As we drove, I held back a little from the dust of the lead truck. The elders, however, stayed right on my tail, eating all of my dust, making it easy for us to see they were there, but probably hard for them to see. In places, the tiny, loose gravel made the road like driving on marbles, a lot like slushing through the snow at home. The truck fishtailed as it hit some bumps, but nothing that letting up a little on the gas and a careful steering adjustment would not correct.
     I got a little too close to the lead truck as they slowed down near one narrow bridge and turn. Sister Layton acknowledged to herself that would be an easy place to go off into the stream. I was lost in their dust like a heavy fog, but I made all the right choices and kept the truck on the road. I backed off again to see better. We were laughing and talking, looking at all the side roads and feeling grateful we had a guide to show us where to go.
     A couple miles farther, I looked in the mirror, but there were no elders on my tail. I slowed down and then stopped. Where were the elders? Sister Layton was concerned for her boys. We tried to call President Layton to tell him the Elders were not behind us. The phone rang but no answer. Right then, my Iphone died, and there were no other phones in the truck.
     Sister Layton said, “Let’s go back.”
     Betty said, “Don’t you think we’d better go on to the junction first and let the President know what’s going on and then go back together.”
     Sister Layton tried to comfort herself, “They’re probably just making a pit stop.”
     We drove ahead. About a half hour later, we saw the Harward truck coming toward us. The President stopped and told us the elders had been in an accident. He didn’t say if anyone was hurt before they drove off. We followed them. As we drove, we hoped the elders were on the main road and had not taken a side road. The sun was getting low, and we were not seeing them. We passed the scary bridge Sister Layton had noted, but they were not there. A mile or so farther, at about dusk, we saw four elders standing in the middle of road. It felt to me that there were others with them, but I could not see the others.
     We looked for the truck; but we could not see it until we stopped and looked down a steep bank, there hidden in the brush was the bent and broken truck. The marks on the road told the story. The truck had almost gone off a thirty foot drop into the stream on one side. The elder had overcorrected, and the truck spun around backwards, went off the road on the other side, hit the brush, rolled at least once, and came to rest down a steep drop about 30 yards from the road. Only the top of the cab was showing, and its color blended well with the foliage. The truck was totaled. How could anyone have walked away from that? They had followed the rules and were all wearing seatbelts.
     We hadn’t been able to get through on our phone to President Layton. If they hadn’t been able to call, and if they had been injured and not able to get out of the truck, it would have been dark, and we would have never found them until at least morning. That was the scenario that kept playing in President Layton’s head.
     Sister Layton had us get our first aid kit out and ready, but there was only a small cut on a finger, and it had already stopped bleeding. We just kept shaking our heads. We knew they had been protected. As I looked at the scene, it was deja vu. My companion and I had done the same thing on my mission back in 1972.
     After we saw everyone was okay, my first suggestion was that we say a prayer of thanks. In President Layton’s prayer, he thanked a loving Heavenly Father for his protection and asked that we make correct decisions. Even though I really wanted to show my farm boy prowess and pull the truck out with the new tow rope I had just made and brought with me, I knew that would put our truck in jeopardy. It was almost dark; the truck was too far away from the road and down too steep of a drop; and even if we got it out, the truck was not drivable.
We had the Elders gather everything out of the wrecked truck; the President took pictures and made the wise decision to monitor the exact distance from the turnoff so the tow company could find the camouflaged truck. I suggested all the Elders go to Savusavu and come the next day by bus to Labasa for training. We put two elders in the back of Harward’s truck, and they took off.

     President Petero volunteered to ride in the back of our truck with the now twenty-five sideways-facing chairs. It was not a comfortable ride, but he insisted. He just put on his hoodie and held on to my new rope I had used to tie the chairs in. At least it was good for something. I had to drive really slowly on the terribly bumpy roads so I wouldn’t throw him off. At times we would stop and try to trade, but he declined. It took two hours to get to the main road and about an hour more to Seaqaqa where we unloaded their chapel’s chairs and let President and Sister Petero out near their home. Then it was only forty-five minutes to the North Pole to get the Layton’s to their hotel. We got home just before midnight. It had been a day. It felt like two. The next day President Layton had the unpleasant job of calling the parents and Stake Presidents of the four missionaries. One of the elders had just been in Fiji a little over a week. His mother was a little freaked, but President Layton was glad to say they were all safe.

Sunday, October 4, 2015

The sunburn I got at our ocean spot Thursday Oct 1 was probably the most painful I have had in my life. I hadn’t even worried about getting burned since it was still morning, and we weren't going to be out there that long; but the extra hour Rex had me stand as a marker while he looked for his lost sandal put it over the top. Since we weren't even thinking sunburn, and with the fact that I hurt all the time with the tingling I have, we didn’t even realize I was burned until night time, and by then the burn was deep and going deeper. We tried about every remedy including applying and reapplying fresh Aloe Vera from our garden and using burn cream, but nothing seemed to cut it. For the next couple days, I stayed close to home, but I couldn’t lean back against anything, and even sleeping on my shoulder killed.
     Saturday, I went with Rex to help the elders, but every tiny bump on the oiled road rubbed my back against the seat, and I winced in pain. I couldn’t even think of going to Siberia with the bumpy roads there so I had Rex drop me off at the church while he took the Elders. I barely made it home. My biggest concern was that we had a 4 hour drive each way to Nakawakawa the very next day on terribly bumpy roads, two hours each way would be like driving on the gravel road to Willow Flats.. It hurt to sit. It hurt to lie down. It just plain hurt. The burning was still unbearable. I don’t know why I waited so long, but I finally asked for a blessing. Right before Rex gave the blessing, he thought maybe he should just leave me home, but he blessed that my back would not hurt at all on the trip.
     I absolutely love priesthood blessings. What power! What tender mercies we receive. It was a long trip there and back with some extra surprises Rex will write about later, but my back did not hurt at all.
This is how the sunburn looked after two days.
     Yesterday was a indeed a monster day. We woke at 4:30 AM and picked up the Laytons by 6:00. We met the Brother Harward, with two members of the district presidency, at the turnoff near Savusavu. We had to wait there for the APs who were bringing Brother Petero, the other member of the district presidency and his wife. A pig was staked out on the side of the road eating grass, and we had to take some pictures. 
Ray's family's nominations for best caption to put under this picture. (To our grandchildren Rex is known as "Grandpa Big  Bad Wolf.):Which do you like best?
*And grandpa big bad wolf said, "Little pig, little pig, where do you live?"
*The big bad wolf said, "I will call you pork chop."
*And grandpa big bad wolf said, "Do you have any brothers by chance?"
*The big bad wolf said, "If I blow your house down, can you run away when you are staked down?"
*The hungry wolf said, "If you say oink one more time, we will have a Fijian feast"
*The wolf who had awakened early in the morning said, *"Maybe you would like to come down my chimney"
*The wolf said while licking his chops, "I love grass-fed pork!"
*Then grandpa big bad wolf said, "You would go very well with garden tomatoes"
*Then one of the grandchildren of grandpa big bad wolf said, "Is there such a thing as Italian sausage in Fiji?"
Waiting for the Peteros amd the APs
     We arrived late in Nakawakawa for the meeting, but we were able to give everyone hugs and handshakes while we waited over an hour more for the rest of the transport trucks to arrive. They had invited nonmembers and people from other villages. Pita’s grandfather and aunt, and his wife’s mother were there to support them. There were over 200 people in all. All the little children sat on big mats on the floor in the front tp fit more people in.
     It was a “glorious day in Nakawakawa” as pronounced by President Layton as he proclaimed it a branch. Pita was beaming and humbled with tears in his eyes as he was sustatined as Branch President, and some other strong men we know are in his presidency. I have never seen it done before, but President Layton and the district presidency sent the whole bishopric apart in front of everyone as part of the sacrament meeting . President Layton spoke and then they asked Pita and his wife to bear their testimonies. They spoke in Fijian so we couldn’t understand, but Sister Petero told us later they talked of their conversion, the growth of the church in Nakawakawa, and their testimonies. The Spirit was there in abundance.
New Branch Presidency
This lady grabbed the bucket of flowers, sat on a chair, and asked us to take her picture
      After the meeting, was the huge feast. One lady and her husband had caught 200 fish, and she had stayed up most of the night frying them all by herself to go with the cassava, dalo, and many other Fijian dishes. They dished up the plates for the children first, then for the men. As is the custom, the women ate last. I had made four batches of brownies. They were cut into 216 small pieces.
Pita's wife & the lady who caught and fried the fish
Pita’s wife had made a totally different meal for us and the VIPs. It was chicken chop suey and beef chop suey, cole slaw, bottled water, cassava, dalo, and other nice dishes, including pint bottles of bottled water. Rex had driven Pita's family in the truck to go get that special food. Most of the rest were finished before they returned about an hour later. The brownies had all miraculously disappeared, except four pieces that hadn’t cut quite right, and saved t for Rex. He ate one, and was holding the pan when an older lady asked if she could have one. She said, “Tasty, very tasty!” Rex gave the other two away. One little boy broke it in two and shared with his friend.
We had brought some big bottles of filtered water. After the meal, I refilled our little bottle and poured filtered water into the waiting cups of youth gathered around me. One girl was especially intrigued by the big bottle. I gave it to her to keep. She carried it for the rest of the day, never setting it down. It was her special gift.

Still visiting after the dinner

  After the meal, while President Layton was training the new presidency, President Joeli Kalougata related his story to the group.  He told of the storm and the boat wreck at sea, being the only one in his family who survived. 

 Inside the church, Sister Layton visited with young girls, mostly mutual age. There was a lot of smiling and laughing. She was very good with them. We stacked the 17 chairs we had brought from Labasa, and Rex arranged them in the back of the truck. Before we left, the ones still there, posed for a picture. It had indeed been a glorious day for them and for us.
Goodbye!