Rex Wrote: On December 1, 2015, we were in charge of
a dinner at a mission tour with Elder S Gifford Nielsen of the Seventy. He is
also a counselor in the Pacific Area Presidency.
We ordered Chinese, picked up bread, made
salad, bought ice cream and pop, and had the other senior couples bring fruit
and cake. It was good!
We
met President and Sister Layton and President and Sister Nielsen at the airport.
They were both friendly and acted interested in everything we said. I told
President Nielsen we were attending BYU Provo when he was the quarterback there.
We graduated the same year. Betty thought Sister Nielsen was darling.
She visited with us as if we were her best friends. She had their first four
children in 4 ½ years. We had our first four children in 5. They have 6
children just as we do. Sister Neilson is in great shape and looks up to the
challenge of the rigorous schedule they meet. She says, “Bring it on!” She just
comes up to her husband’s shoulder, but her spirit is giant, and they both
radiate energy and enthusiasm.
In the missionary training meeting, Sister
Nielsen taught us the importance of having a balanced life. She compared life
to a wheel with the spokes being mental, physical, spiritual, emotional, and social.
She noted that if anything is off balance, it becomes a wobbly wheel that can’t
roll smoothly.
Elder
Nielsen talked about connecting with the people around us and especially
strategies for missionaries to quickly connect with potential investigators. He
used the example of Ammon on his mission to the Laminates in Alma 17-27. Ammon
made such a great first impression that the King offered him to choose one of
his daughters to marry. Nielsen made the story of Ammon come to life.
At the end he opened it up for questions
and answered with some personal stories. I had asked him at the airport, “What
is your favorite game that you played?” He didn’t have time to answer then; but
in the meeting, he told about playing Arizona State in Provo. Arizona State was
ranked 10th in the nation. He said Coach Doug Scovil had
designed a special play to use against them. It was a slight modification of a
regular play. He told Gifford what defense it would work against and to be
looking for it. As Gifford came to the line, he saw Arizona in the
right defense. He smiled as he knew he was about to throw a 70 yard touchdown.
He got the snap and dropped back and looked to the left where the play would
normally go. The defense converged on the receiver to the left. He shifted and threw
the ball down the middle of the field where another receiver was waiting. He caught
the ball in stride and went all the way to the end zone for a touchdown.
Gifford went to the sideline and told Coach Scovil he was a genius. The coach
replied, “Was it fun?” Gifford
came back with, “Yes!” Coach Scovil said with a smile, “We’ll do it again.” BYU
won that game, and it worked the next time they tried it, too.
He told another story about what is was
like in the NFL. He was the only member of the church on the Houston Oilers. The
other players smoked, drank, many did drugs and chased women. He was married
with two children. He told the other players he wanted to be their teammate,
but he would live his religion and not party with them. His first start came
against the Dallas Cowboys. They won the game. He had given it his all. He
was hot and thirsty and tired and might have lost about ten pounds. Before he had a
chance to get a drink or do anything, he was bombarded with reporters. For over an hour, they askied him questions about how he was able to beat one the best
teams in the NFL as a rookie. He told them it was a team effort, and he was
just one of the players. After the media were sent out of the locker room, the
young quarterback sat on his bench exhausted. He said, “I was totally spent,
physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually!”
At
that point a teammate come to him with two ice-cold beers and said, “I know you
don’t drink, but I want to celebrate this victory with you. One beer won’t hurt
you!” Gifford said at that moment the cold beers did look pretty good. Before he
could answer, one of his offensive linemen interrupted, “I never want to hear
you ask him that again! Don’t you know Mormons don’t drink!” After that, they
always had his back on the field and off.
President Nielsen also showed the group
what he was up against as a quarter back in the NFL. He took our broadest
missionary, one about six-foot tall, and told him to stand on a chair, hold his
hands above his head, and growl. (It looked like a big bear.) He said, “This is
an example of what was coming after me, and they were paid to try to hurt me.”
President Nielsen and his wife have so much
energy. They were both fun to listen to. They trained all of us from 9
AM -2:30 PM only breaking at noon to eat and take a group picture. I have never
seen a day go that quickly and never enjoyed a training more.
At the airport parking lot, Elder Nielsen
had a minute to answer my question from that morning. He said the Arizona State
game in Provo was his favorite collage game, and his best NFL memory was a
play-off win against San Diego, a game they were not supposed to win. I asked,
“Was it hard not being allowed to pass very much?” He said when you have
Heisman trophy winner in Hershel Walker, as a running back, the coach wants you
to give him the ball. I said, “But if you had thrown a little more, it would
have loosened up the defense, and Hershel Walker would have had an easier time
running.” He just smiled and nodded. I could tell he wanted to pass more, but
he was a team player and did what the coach wanted. He waved and went into the
airport.
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President Layton commented: "Elder and Sister Nielsen commented several times about the spirit they felt in our mission and how respectful and obedient they found our missionaries. Just another confirmation we have the best missionaries serving in the best mission."
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Taveuni Zone with President and Sister Nielsen
Front row: Elder Alonzo, Elder Davis, Elder Mumford, Elder Tupou, Elder Tera, Elder Mong Yen and Elder Condie
Second row: Elder McLean, Elder Talamai, Elder Aoina, Elder Lemusu, Elder Jonutz, Elder Barnaby, Elder Boyack and Elder Fong
Third row: Sister Malito, Sister Fanene, Elder & Sister S Gifford Nielsen, President & Sister Layton, Sister M Elias and Sister Aumua
Back row: Elder & Sister Woodward, Elder & Sister Roth, Elder & Sister Vermeeren, Elder Dunn, Elder Afatasi, Elder van der Linden,Elder Stock, Elder Larsen, Elder Lemalu, Elder Luatua, Sister Buring, Sister Kevaru and President & Sister Harward
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Master Teacher
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Three of our district - Elders Aoina, Luatua, and Sister Aumua joined Elder Afatasi and sang a special number for the Mission Tour. Their voices are incredible! |
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At the end of the training, we were all asked for a few of our spiritual impressions.
Following is our impressions plus more from the other stops of the Mission Tour:
Nothing is impossible- We
are Children of God
Who
are you? Whose are you?
Be
totally in!
Never
stop preparing
His
Game time
Prepare
yourself-Receive Revelation
Plan
of Happiness = Love
Connect
with others
Spread
Good News- Temple
Keep
your Saints! Fellowship!
Let
your light shine!
Don’t
waste a minute
Don’t
be objects to be acted upon. Be agents.
Obey
leaders; exact obedience
Be
the solution not the problem
Preparation
brings the Spirit
Be
grateful for our Redeemer and our leaders
You
have a special mission
Begin
with the end in mind
We
are on the Lords errand, we are entitled to his help.
We
all grow at different paces
This
is your time!
Balance
your wheel
Live
a balanced life
Choose
someone balanced to marry
Marry
the right person, in the right place, at the right time
Ask
inspired questions
Be
consecrated
Where
are you in the gospel?
Don’t
compare your wheel to others
We
need to connect
Listen
to the Spirit
Appoint
the Holy Ghost to be your teacher
Turn
to Christ
Engrave
in your hearts
Be
a walking Epistle
Be
thou an example
President
Monson is a prophet of God
Give
it your all
Miracles
are possible 2 Nephi 32:9
Share
your light
Be
an agent, not an object
Talk
to everyone
We’re
not here to be average
Preparation
brings the Spirit
Be
thou an example
We
are called by God through a living Prophet
Be
optimistic!
Are
you in the game or on the bench?
Attitude
is the mind’s paint brush
Align
yourself with Savior and companion
Be
equally yoked
Faith
becomes knowledge
God
loves to be asked to fix broken things and broken people
Listen
to the Spirit
Doubt
not, fear not
Temple
= Temporal and Spiritual light
Expect
and act on miracles
Christ’s grace is sufficient
There is no end: Endure
Be one with the Savior
There’s no excuse to fall away
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